Aug 8, 2010

weird, different, or, yet, normal?

First of all, do not ever Google word weird and look for the pictures. That's scary.

Anyway, two posts today. Wow.

As I'm getting older, these two words are becoming more and more used in my presence.

Motherhood and marriage.

My parents, my family and, of course, let us not forget the society, they all expect that, as a gal approaches her young 30s, to have a wedding ring on her right hand, or even a child or two.

I despite that idea.

As matter of fact, as I'm getting older, the whole idea about having a husband and bunch of kids is shading in my mind.
And I keep asking myself, is everything ok with me?

I mean, all of my friends have a certain idea and a wish to find that "until the end of the time" person, and yet, I stand alone in my wishes of not changing my last name, ever.

I do not run away from an idea of having someone to love, and to be loved, but I ask you, is there a possibility of being happy without the marriage and kids thing?

For me, the ultimate happiness is a possibility to make people around me happy.

If that makes me weird, let it be.

With love,

S

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