To do or not to do

When you break up with someone, you need time to heal. To find yourself again, to feel ok, time to stop missing that significant other, time to stop hoping you gonna get back with the owner of your heart.

I need a lot of time for that. I can be joyfull and happy like crazy for some time, but after that I need a lot of time to let go of the person.
I don't need a party, or a rebound, or to lost myself in work. I need to talk about it, I need to cry, I need to listen to the sad break up songs, songs that were ours, watch really sad love movies, just time to be sad.

This is my break up playlist:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJbz5HaKCJc&feature=youtube_gdata_player

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPI_3U8I0I4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8gDeLprlkE&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Movies playlist:
Last night
Before sunset
Dear John
The Notebook
Becoming Jane
And lately High Art...